When “You’re Not Listening!” Really Means “You Don’t Agree with Me!”
A new study suggests that people often perceive others as poor listeners if the listener disagrees with them, even if the listener has objectively been listening well.
It’s a piece of advice many of us have heard: avoid discussing politics and religion, especially with those who disagree with you.The assumption is that such conversations will inevitably turn hostile and unpleasant. But could this conventional wisdom be misguided?…